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What I Find Most Attractive In A Man — Genevieve Nnaji

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Genevieve Nnaji (Wikipedia)

How does it feel to have risen this far within so short a time?

I’m trying to handle it as much as I  can. It feels fulfilling. I feel I’m  having the best of my time. I feel the Lord is with me. I feel I have been able to make an impact on people and I have a lot of fans and I’m enjoying my life. It feels good.

God’s gift, talent, determination, pride …

You have to have pride to be able to stand the crowd, you have to have pride to be able to stand the intimidation and arrogance of people. Especially people who feel you have to pay dues to get to where you are going. You have to have the pride and stamina to tell them boldly you know what you are doing; they didn’t bring you to the industry, you will leave when you want to and you leave because you want to.

In the next 10 years, I know I will be married with kids. But I think it all depends on what God has fashioned out for me. I know I will still be in the entertainment industry or the fashion world or whatever.

The fact that it opens doors for you is what I like most about it. You walk into a place and every other person is queuing up for one thing or the other, they just start to recognize you. Oh! come in, come in… it’s actually a door opener  for us or for me. It has brought respect, especially when you do what you are doing well. What I hate most about it is the price that we get to pay for stardom- negative publicity, the untrue scandals; actually, the only thing I hate about is the bad press.

So many bad things. But the one I hated most was the one of Fred Amata and I, which I don’t know where they got it from. It hurt me so much. It was not just fair.

How do you feel anytime you read negative things about your person in the media?

Certainly, I don’t feel good…

What if the stories are true, but maybe you were not expecting them to  be  published? 

It’s rarely been the truth . Maybe a bit of it, but that’s not how it happened. The press never tells the story the way it is. It’s usually a bit from here and a bit from there. For a very long time, they have not written anything true about me…

How did you come into the movie industry?

I have been acting since I was eight in Ripples. that was how I got into acting. For movies, I think that should be 1998 in Most Wanted. I met Torino (Emeka Ojukwu) in a bus and to my greatest surprise, he recognized me, from Ripples, when I was about eight, nine. He asked why I left the industry. He later invited me to this audition- Most Wanted. I got a role, a ‘waka-pass’ and that was it.

But the story we heard was that Kunle Coker  brought you  in  and that both of you even dated?

Yes, Kunle Coker was actually my boyfriend. But he did not bring me into the industry.

What do you find most attractive in a man?

The fact that a man will take me for who I am, not for what he hears or what he believes. I like people who take me for the me they see. That’s the most important thing. And have regard for me. And trust too.

What do you think is the biggest mistake that men make with women?

Everyone makes mistakes. But to me, I will not tolerate any man who

hits women. To me, that’s evil.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

I believe in infatuation at first sight. Love is a very strong feeling. It does not just come. People think infatuation is being in love. They are two different things. You don’t know anything yet until you get to meet the person and you begin to fall in love. Not just physically, but externally with the person.

Can you recollect the first time you fell in love?

Yes!

Tell us about it.

I think we met at a show. This was when I was in secondary school and  we shared a lot of things in common- singing. It was a case of two compatible people who were so much in love with each other and…

So, what eventually happened?

Like I said, relationships must come and go. You can’t help everything that happens. Some things just happen for no reason .

What’s your definition of love?

Love has to be understanding, caring. Love, to me, is being with somebody for 24 hours without being bored. Love is catching your breath every time you see whoever you are in love with· Love is friendship, love is understanding and love is trust.

Do you believe in being faithful in a relationship?

Yeah! I’m very faithful.

Can you date a fan?

I’ve never dated a fan. And I don’t know if I can. But people come around to toast as per fans. But it’s a matter of nicely telling them off. There are different reasons why fans like or love artistes. So, it actually depends on why my fan loves me. It depends. Although, I don’t think it is advisable to date a fan. The reason being that people are in love with what they see on the screen, not the real you.

What’s your greatest wish?

That God continues to bless me. Especially with the right man and a good family.

What’s your favourite colour?

Blue.

What are your hobbies?

Singing, dancing…

Let’s have your bio-data. People don’t seem to know much about you?

I’m from Aboh-Mbaise in Imo State. I went to Kemistar Nursery and Primary School, Surulere; Methodist Girls High School, followed by one in Ikeja. I kept on moving. But ended up at Girls Secondary School, Akwakuma in Owerri, Imo State.

Why have you not furthered your education?

Life is not the same for everybody. Some people are so lucky, they come out of secondary school and  they go straight to university because they have the back-up of people and it’s so easy. It looks simple…mine was different. But I’m determined. Definitely, I’m gonna go back to school. I wanted to make money, I love my money, I cherish my own money. So, I will go back when I’ve made enough. But even while I’m there, I won’t stop working.

Tell us about your parents, what do they do?

My parents are there. My mum is a teacher and my dad is retired.

What was your dad into before his retirement?

He was a bank manager with African Continental Bank (ACB) …I’m the fourth of eight children, the third girl. We are four girls, four boys. I come from a very strong Christian family. And I think that has been able to have an effect on my life, especially since I came into the industry. You see, even when people go out to say all sorts, my mother knows the kind of daughter she has. She knows the limit that I can go.

She must have been devastated when you took in, in your teens?

Well, well …I think so.

What was your childhood like?

My childhood was fun. It was fun. You don’t get to get all that these days.

What’s the greatest complement that has ever come your way?

My complexion.

SOURCE: AZHU ARINZE’S ‘CONVERSATIONS WITH SHOWBIZ STARS

Bola Ige: Perhaps Closed Files Should Remain Just That – closed?, By Wole Soyinka

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Wole Soyinka

Barely three months have passed since the twentieth anniversary of the murder of the late Attorney-General and Minister of Justice, Bola Ige; an occasion that I utilised to remind President Muhammadu Buhari of a subsisting election pledge. That pledge was to re-open the files on the spate of unsolved political assassinations that had plagued the nation in recent decades. Prominent among those cases was that of the Minister of Justice, murdered on his way to take up a prestigious position with the United Nations.

Presidential response was swift. Buhari ordered the Inspector-General of Police to re-open those files and resume investigations. The nation has patiently awaited even a hint of Work in Progress. Most, I am certain, expect no less than a revaluation of prior investigative efforts. None, to my knowledge, has attempted to rush the chief of Police and his team into judgment. We all take solace in the knowledge that the wheels of justice grind slowly, but they arrive. Eventually.

However, an unusual turn of events has raised questions. The ruling party, headed by the same President, has just elected as its National Secretary one of the prime suspects of this most notorious of the nation’s unsolved murders. Not for a moment does one suggest that mere accusation, even trial, presumes guilt. More than a mere verdict is involved in any trial, however. The process of arriving at that ultimate destination – justice – is integral to the very concept of democracy and equality under the law. That process is one of the structures of civic education.

Unresolved till today are quite a number of untidy, even suspect aspects of investigation, prosecution and trials, aspects which revealed improper cell co-habitation by suspects under custody. That this led necessarily to recantations of earlier depositions is not thereby proven, but the fact remains that such u-turns did take place. One was so brazen that it induced a heart attack that proved fatal to the victim’s wife, another Justice – Mrs Atinuke Ige. That the prime suspect was privileged in a number of improper ways went beyond mere allegation. Political interventions, including pressure on the judiciary during bail hearings cannot be denied. A judge under such pressure kept a diary with accusations, pages of which he consigned to friends for safe keeping.

With the emergence of the said prime suspect as National Secretary of the Ruling Party, is the Inspector-General of Police equipped to confront political obstacles in a resumption of investigation? Is there any guarantee that the result will see the light of day? How suspect, ab initio, will be the conclusions, given the present political ordering?

I repeat: We are speaking of blatant, undeniable exercise of POLITICAL interventions during investigations and the arraignment of suspects. Prior incumbency of the position of National Secretary of a ruling party has demonstrated the potent interventionist clout that can be wielded from that office. The president has personally received, and thus anointed the new incumbent. Since he remains central to any re-investigation – whatever form or direction it takes – just what value of objective assessment can be placed on the presidential pledge?

To this layman, that investigative revisit is already hamstrung and disrobed of credibility. I think the nation should simply relieve President Buhari of his pledge. I am certain the Inspector-General of Police will be equally relieved and can now turn his mind and energy to the national accustomed posture – business as usual.

Soyinka, the first Black Nobel Laureate in Literature, writes from A.R.I, Kemta Housing Estate, Abeokuta.

My Wife Destroyed My Property, Threatened To Kill Me ‘Cos I Have A Girlfriend —Husband

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Court 4

 

A man, Abidemi Oladejo, has told Grade A Customary Court, Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, he is no longer interested in his union with his wife, Aishat Oladejo, on the grounds that she is troublesome, rebellious and destructive.

Abidemi explained that she constantly destroyed the ware in his shop and sent his customers away.

The plaintiff further stated that the defendant, on discovering that he had a girlfriend threatened to kill him.

Abidemi told the court that rather than enjoy his marriage to his wife, he has endured their relationship for years.

The plaintiff thus appealed to the court to end their relationship.

Aishat denied all the allegations leveled against her by her husband.

The defendant accused her husband of being irresponsible.

According to her, Abidemi never showed interest in their children’s welfare.

Aishat told the court she was the one clothing their children and paying their school fees.

However, Abidemi in his testimony said, “My lord, my marriage to Aishat gives me no joy. I have been enduring our relationship since we got married.

“Aishat is stubborn, troublesome and has succeeded in making life difficult for me.

She never listens to my counsel nor takes instructions from me. My wife flouts my orders at will.

“I bought her a sewing machine for her to make a living out of, but she failed in this regard. All that my wife knows to do is to fight.

“Armed robbers once broke into our apartment and drew dangerous weapons at us, but I  managed to escape.

“These men of the underworld went away with my belongings among which was my phone and money.

“Aishat started giving me hell after the incident.

“She decided she and our children were no longer going to stay in our apartment again. According to her, she was scared the armed men might launch an attack again.

“She deserted me for three months. She moved to her family house and insisted she would not return until I rented another apartment.

“She went on to rent another place after I stood my ground we were living nowhere else.

“I warned her that the step she took could break our marriage but she remained adamant.

“Aishat came to pack the remaining of her property and we lived separately for an additional six months.

“I paid my wife and our children regular visits at her new place, but ensured I never spent the night with her.

“Any time I visited, I always give her and our children feeding allowance and also attended to their other needs.

“I have consistently made our children’s education my priority.

“My lord, despite all I do to make my wife comfortable, she will still come to my shop to destroy my goods and fight me.

“She will turn my shop upside down.

“Aishat will threaten my workers and send away my workers.

“My lord, Aishat became more troublesome after she learnt I now have a girlfriend.

“She threatens everyday to kill me.

“My lord, I fear Aishat can make real her threat.  I don’t wish that she terminates my life and leave our children without a future.

“I am tired of my wife. I, therefore, entreat this honourable court to rule that we go our different ways,” the plaintiff stated.

Aishat during cross examination told Abidemi, “You are a liar. You never bought me a machine.”

She further stated that, “You know nothing about our children’s education. I declare before this honourable court that I’m the one paying our children’s fees. I pay N3,500, N2,500 and N2,000 respectively as fees for our three children.

The defendant went on, “You consistently shirk your responsibility towards these children and care less if they went naked. I clothe them on regular basis and provide them the other needs,” Aishat stated.

The court president, Mrs S.M Akintayo, adjourned the case till April 26 for continuation of hearing.

Curled from Nigerian Tribune

Mother’s Love: Not Just Unconditional, But Also Instinctual, By Sandra Ijeoma Okoye

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Sandra Ijeoma Okoye

It is not an exaggeration to say that residents of Ogunleye Street, off Adekunle Kuye, Surulere, Lagos, will not forget so soon how they were, in the month of May 2017, thrown into mourning after a couple and three children died in a fire that engulfed the shop they used as home.

The incident was also highlighted with the destruction of three other shops in the inferno. However, the most spotlighted in the event was how Hope, the wife of the owner of the shop, Ignatius, dashed back into the raging fire, unnoticed, despite being in pains, when her children kept crying for help. But she was burnt to death with the children, Chukwuka, 9; Nonso, 7, and Ugochukwu, 6.

In a similar vein, there was an incident in a village that I cannot mention its name in this context, where a particular youth got missing in the forest; either while on his way to the farm or on his way back. For three days he was nowhere to be found despite the search groups organized by decision makers in the village to search for him. Interestingly while elders and decision makers in the village were unarguably dilly-dallying on how he should be searched for, and brought back home, the mother, who unarguably ran out of patience braced the odds, and went into the thick forest at midnight to search for the son by screaming his name with all her strength. Fortunately for her, the son heard her, and equally searched for the mother, and they eventually met, and got united once again in the forest, and consequently came back home together.

Still in the same vein, some members of a secret cult came asking for a member of a rival cult group.  Being disappointed that he was not found at home, they threatened the mother with a message that her son should expect them in two days’ time when he would be killed in the presence of his mother. When the mother heard the bullying message, she held on to the trousers of one the cultist urging him to kill her in the stead of her son. Both of them were rumbustiously struggling and arguing when policemen on patrol within the vicinity stormed on them at the scene of disagreement, and got the cultist arrested.

Early this year, precisely in the month of January, the media was agog on how a Magistrate’s Court sitting in Ado in Ado Odo Ota Local Government Area of Ogun State, remanded Mrs. Elizabeth Joseph, mother of Joshua Joseph, an SS3 Student of Toyan High School, Ere, who allegedly beat up a teacher. Looked from whichever ramifications, the point remains that mothers can go to any length to protect their children or throw their weight behind them; no matter whose ox is gored.

Without doubt, the foregoing anecdotes are not made-up or out-of-the-way. They are aptly the descriptions of how mothers’ emotional react when their children are in danger.

Again, apart from mother’s love being unconditional, it is also instinctual. It is a situation where mothers become overprotective, and want to protect their children from harm, hurt and pain, unhappiness, bad experiences and rejection, hurt feelings, failure and disappointments.

In fact, the word, Mother, alone brings forth a wealth of emotions. Perhaps you didn’t have the kind of mother you felt you wanted or needed. Maybe your mother could do no wrong in your eyes. Perhaps your mother wasn’t part of your life at all. No matter the relationship, a commonality we all share is that our mothers gave birth to us.

Without any iota of exaggeration, there are exceptions, mothers instinctively love, nurture and safeguard their children. We can even see this in the animal kingdom as a mother bear guards her cubs or a goose chases away anyone near her precious eggs.

A mother’s love is both strong and tender, and they long to see their children happy and thriving. Their heart’s desire is to step in and protect, but a wise mother also knows when to say “no” and let her child feel the painful consequence of a decision he or she has made. In this same way, our heavenly father loves his children and hears their petitions. He sometimes answers us with a “no” and often times He too, allows us to feel the pain of the consequences of our choices.

Be that as it may, my mom, never for once missed a teachable moment, and she usually told me that God gave mothers maternal instinct so that His love for us would be magnified.

A mother’s love, she said, is beyond measure, but the closest comparison is God’s sacrificial love. Years later, as a young mother myself, I found her words rang true. I love my children more than mere words can ever tell.

In fact, nothing hurts a mother more than seeing one of her children hurting, and if we could, we would gladly switch places and take their pain upon us. Mothers have a love so great and deep that they would readily die for the children they so love.

As we honor our mothers and the life they gave us, particularly since we celebrated them on the platform of Mother’s Day, let us also remember that Christ did step in to take our place and He offers us a life that is eternal.

Moses Omo-Ikirodah: On A Mission, By Tony Osakpamwan Agbons

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Moses Omo-Ikirodah

In the space of time certain attributes come to define the persona of an individual. Such attributes which are often time-tested, presupposes those vital elements of trust, values, and a belief that the common good of humanity are cooked into it. Yours sincerely is not one to be carried away by arbitrary innuendos and shenanigans. Habits they say, “die hard”. This declaration is necessary to clear any insinuations of matters that may arise in this discuss. In the past, I have been inundated with requests to do with the pen, some ‘yeoman’s job of ‘whitening’ the image of political actors. Not an ‘FOC’ (free of charge) approach but with lots of sauce and juice.  I repeatedly and politely declined and still decline such overtures because my very objective and professional journalistic DNA is not cut out for such non-evidence based write ups.

Today, I am voluntarily running out of my cocoon to burst my own bubble out of moral conviction and without any approach or gratification to do this. A few days ago, while taking time off a busy work schedule, I was looking through the WhatsApp status of a few contacts on my mobile phone when I stumbled onto a cute photograph of a gentleman in the true sense of it. I mean a very colossal yet humble, unassuming, quintessential, and amiable dude. The flyer I saw on his status displayed the message that he has thrown his ‘wise hat’ into the political ring to serve his community and his people of Etsako Federal Constituency. This son of the legendary Kukuruku Hills area in Edo State, is running to become a member of the Federal House of Representatives in 2023 on the platform of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP. Straightaway, I put a call across to congratulate him for taking the bold step to serve the good people of Etsako, Edo State and by extension, Nigeria. Step in Engineer Moses Alaoye Omo-Ikirodah.

Born in Auchi Edo State into the family of Madam Veronica Abikwi and Elder John Omo-Ikirodah (of blessed memory) who hails from South Ibie community of Etsako West Local Government Area. The young Moses attended Iyerekhu Primary School, then Egba Grammar School as well as the famed Immaculate Conception College, ICC Benin City.  He showed at an early age, his uncommon dexterity in putting things together, fixing models and building frames. So, it came as no surprise a few years later, when he opted to study Mechanical Engineering at the prestigious Edo State University (now Ambrose Alli University) Ekpoma where he obtained a sound Bachelor of Science Degree.  He is a member of the Nigeria Society of Engineers and Certified member, Council for the Regulation of Engineering in Nigeria, COREN. A former National Treasurer and later National Secretary of the Niger Delta Youth Movement (umbrella body for Niger Delta Youth Groups), Engr. Moses Omo-Ikirodah is the current Chairman of the Niger Delta Youth Movement Elders Council. Engr. Moses is happily married and blessed with three lovely children.

Like his dad, Late Elder John Omo-Ikirodah who was a great philanthropist, and successful business mogul, Engr. Moses is one determined personality with a buzz of directional push. He is not one to look down on people. He will always meet you half-way. A great listener who speaks very little, he is calm and measured with a heart full of compassion, care, and love for others. He is a deeply reliable and thoroughly dependable human who has got your back at any time. Unknown to many, the kind-hearted Engr. Moses Omo-Ikirodah has for many years quietly (without hitting the cymbals or seeking superficial aggrandisement) brought succour to many people. He has and continues to provide scholarships, bursaries, and mentorship to numerous students in Edo State. He has also given a helping hand to countless other less privilege people through personal welfare programs in his community and beyond. He is unapologetically one of the few good men I know, and it is evidential. You can take my word to the bank and cash out!

Speaking recently after picking the expression of interest form to contest for the ticket of the PDP for Etsako Federal constituency in the House of Representatives, this dynamic gentleman had one message. In his words, “my decision to serve my good people of Etsako Federal Constituency is first, it is second and it is third. Nothing else matters”.  As Chief Executive Officer, CEO of Modah Group, a leading Engineering and Construction firm based in Abuja, Engr. Moses Omo-Ikirodah brings a lot of private sector experience to the table. At a time when our polity is in dire need of excellence, his irk is surely a breath of fresh air. He has never forgotten his roots and has always identified with the yearnings and aspirations of his people.

So, time is now for all well-meaning sons and daughters of Etsako, Edo State across the landscape to embrace a committed, dedicated man on a mission to serve. He is primed to usher in a new page in democratic representation. A representation that will no doubt be done with the usual flare for excellence that is his lifestyle. The mantra is none other than – to positively influence the course of representative and all-inclusive governance for the benefit of the people and bring about a positive impact to the good people of Etsako Federal constituency in particular, Edo State and Nigeria in general. So shall it be!

Dr Agbons is founder of the Institute of Good Governance @www.twin2.org

How Can We Say Goodbye To You, S.O?: Tribute To A Journalism Legend, By Eyobong Ita

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You came, you saw, you changed our approach to sports journalism. You came at a time our profession needed a fearless and fascinating leader.

You took up the mantle as sports editor at Sunday Concord and exploded into a national treasure as sports editor at The Guardian, the flagship of Nigerian journalism at the time.

Your column, “S.O. This Morning, the Sports Journalist You Can’t Ignore,” rattled the nerves of Nigeria’s sports administrators, but your coverage endeared you to fans and foes within and beyond Nigeria.

From The Guardian, you took Nigerian sports journalism to the next level, blazing a trail in sports publications. From Sports Souvenir to Complete Football magazine, Complete Football International, International Soccer Review, and then you went daily with Complete Sports.

S.O., you didn’t just impact sports journalism, you impacted lives of sports journalists and thousands of others who knew little or nothing about sports. With your mentorship, many who worked with you went on to become prominent sports editors – Chris Okojie, Ikeddy Isiguzo, Mitchell Obi, Trigo Egbegi, the late Pat Opara, and a host of others living and deceased. Two of your mentees – Okojie and Isiguzo – became my mentors at Vanguard, where I started my sports journalism career and continued in the United States.

According to Isiguzo, you were “a kind and patient teacher who made people better, generous with your ideas and kind with your possessions.” You had “a knack for identifying talent and did a lot to improve people’s capacities and capabilities.”

Yemi Ojo, a prominent member of Nigerian Sports Journalists in Diaspora who worked with you at Sunday Concord, recalls that you were the first Nigerian sports editor to introduce the addition of reporters’ photos to their bylines.

You didn’t only impact sports journalists, you teamed up with your wife, Pastor (Mrs.) Esther Ojeagbase, to establish the Success Attitude Development Centre (SADC) to teach and inspire thousands of Nigerians on how to create wealth from scratch.

You served in the Nigerian Army, wrote and edited sports articles, authored multiple books, gave motivational speeches and preached the Lord’s message.

You did it all!

At Nigerian Sports Journalists in Diaspora, news of your transition was shocking, and the reality of your departure is painful. We are, however, consoled that you found and embraced Christ as your Lord and Savior. Yes, you once served in the Nigerian army, but you’re going home as a general in the Lord’s Army.

How can we say goodbye to you, S.O?

You’ve left your beautiful family in tears and Nigeria’s sports journalism nation is in pain, but we refuse to mourn. Rather, we celebrate your life and the impact you had on our lives.

We can’t say goodbye, S.O.

That’s too painful to say. But we wish you God’s speed. Have a safe trip to your Father in Heaven, Pastor (Dr.) Emmanuel Sunny Obazu Ojeagbase, Nigeria’s sports journalist who could not be ignored!

Eyobong Ita is President, Nigerian Sports Journalists In Diaspora (NSJID)

Rotimi Williams Alive In Wole Olanipekun, By Festus Adedayo

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Festus Adedayo

Since his death in March, 2006, not minding the galaxy of topnotch legal colossi that Nigeria has sired ever since, many schools of thought hold that Nigeria had not been able to reincarnate Chief Frederick Rotimi Alade Williams, QC, SAN. I argue to the contrary, however that, in Chief Wole Olanipekun, Williams is very much alive with the Nigerian bar. The late Queen’s Counsel had oscillated in the legal firmament, both literally and with his immense physical stature.

Like Williams, Olanipekun has also traversed the world of law. First Nigerian to become a Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN), a staunch member of the Action Group, Minister for Local Government and Western Region’s first Attorney General, the first Nigerian to be so appointed and and then, Minister of Justice in 1959, Williams became president of the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA). When lawyers cite groundbreaking precedents like the Lakanmi vs the Western Government of Nigeria and the landmark case involving the Oba of Lagos, Adeniji Adele against the Nigerian National Democratic Party, (NNDP) Williams’ legal wizardry and imprimatur encompass them all.

Years after Williams’ departure however, arguably, there is no Nigerian lawyer who has traversed the firmament of law like Ikere-Ekiti-born legal colossus, Olanipekun.  Thus, when the Nigerian Body of Benchers, a professional body that is concerned with the regulation of the legal profession in Nigeria and admission of prospective students into the Nigerian Law School, chose Olanipekun as its Chairman, the reverberations of that choice have persisted across the length and breadth of Nigeria.

Called to the bar in July, 1976 after graduation from the Nigerian Law School and becoming a SAN in July 1991, Olanipekun eventually became Ondo State’s Attorney General and Commissioner for Justice.

Perhaps the most-talked about period of his legal career and which happens to be his most profound engagement with the bar, was in 2002 when he was elected President of the NBA. Legal pundits liken that period to the Alao Aka-Basorun leadership of the bar for its overarching impact on the profession and the lives of the individual bar member. The year after, Olanipekun got appointed vice President of the Pan African Lawyers and in January, 2007, became a Life Bencher, one of the most prestigious heights of attainment in the law profession. The University of Ibadan still talks with nostalgia about his period as its Pro-Chancellor and Chairman, Governing Council between 2004 and 2006. Apart from being a Fellow of the Chartered Institute of Arbitrators (FCIArb.), Olanipekun was also bestowed with the national honour of Officer of the Federal Republic, (OFR).

Olanipekun’s appointment as Chairman of Body of Benchers is an icing on the cake of a firm leadership of the Nigerian lawyers that he has given over the years, as well as an authoritative stamp on his demonstrable pedigree of proven track records at the bar. These will no doubt push the Nigerian bar into greater achievements.

Congratulations, Learned Silk.

Adedayo is Ibadan based Journalist

Beere: Egba Women’s Revolt Speaks My Language (1), By Tunji Ajibade

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Tunji-Ajibade

I never got the impression that Biodun Baiyewu writes good plays until I watched her play, Beere, at the Shehu Musa Yar’Adua Centre, recently. Biodun is the Executive Director of Global Rights, an NGO, and we were together at the 2009 creative writing workshop organised by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. Years did pass before I got to know she writes plays too. Now that I watched Beere, I see Biodun from a new perspective; the perspective of her creative and clever take on African women, particularly the Egba women of the 1940s in Ogun State, Nigeria.

Her work reminds us that there were women in the past who started the emancipation process which led to many of the things that now appear normal in today’s Nigeria. They weren’t in the past. Some women had to sit up and fight in a society where it was common to hear women referred to as “mere women.” Beere speaks my language for many reasons. One, the play tells our own story, the Nigerian story, the story of African women, which I think we don’t tell enough. Like Biodun said after the play, “we’re Nigerians” and we’re proud of who we are. One way to display this is by telling of our heroic deeds. We do have heroic deeds just as we have heroes who made them happen.

In fact, we’re the heroes we wish to see. Biodun puts these words in the mouth of one of her major characters, the reason the character told her granddaughter the story of Egba women who revolted against colonial oppression. At the forefront of the revolt in the 1940s were Mrs Soyinka, mother of Prof Wole Soyinka, the Nobel Laureate, as well as Mrs Funmilayo Ransom Kuti (alias Beere), the mother of Fela Anikulapo Kuti, the late afrobeat musician. As a result of Egba women’s activism, the Alake of Egbaland at the time was compelled to abdicate. The grandmother who told this story was making the point to her granddaughter that if she wanted changes in how the nation was run, if she was looking for heroes who would bring about changes, it was best that she, the granddaughter, got prepared to be that hero she looked for in others. You can’t sit and wait vainly for others to effect change in society. Change begins with us. We are the heroes we seek, the same way the women of Egba became heroes because they didn’t sit and wait for others to bring about the change they desired. They went for the change themselves and they got it.

Now, the other reason Beere speaks my language is connected to the first. Recently, I congratulated another fellow of the 2009 Chimamanda Adichie workshop over the independence anniversary of her nation, Ghana, on March 6. Martina, better known by her pen name, Mamle Kabu or Mamle Wolo, notes in her response that her nation has its challenges too but she and others are doing what they can “in our various corners” to bring about change. I respond to her that such is the spirit, the kind of things I state whenever I have the opportunity. Note that Martina, an award-winning writer, partly has European roots, but she loves Ghana and she’s lived there all her life, making her contribution to the country as a creative writer. Those are the kind of people I pay attention to, not those who escape to enjoy material comfort abroad only to disparage their African roots.

Biodun displays the same mentality as Martina’s in Beere and I’m not surprised. Creative writers have a few things in common. This is a lady who also has a part of her roots abroad (and she did school abroad at a stage). But like other people that I’ve praised on this page (who could have stayed abroad, but who choose to stay here and do their best for our nation), Biodun looks at a real life story that projects us as a proud people, proud of our heritage, and puts it in the form of a play to project a particular narrative. With the narrative she adopted, she did bring out a few issues which reflect what she believes and what she practises. As a lawyer and an activist, she shows those strains through the Egba women. For me, her interpretation of the events of the 1940s is apt along these lines because we all see things differently and we interpret them differently, and she does hers in the best tradition of creative writers.

These are trying times in Nigeria, but many don’t play their part in their corners; rather they insult ‘government.’ It’s the reason I have this distaste for some of the criticisms out there in the public space. Those who lift no fingers to do a thing are the more virulent critics. It’s good to criticise what’s not right in your nation. But if you make the mistake of running your mouth without telling me what you do differently in your corner, I will ask you hard questions. Those who shout the loudest are the ones who harm this nation the most in their corners. We go to the public agencies they head, there we see them mismanage the place but insult ‘government’ for the collective outcome.

Biodun as an activist isn’t busy criticising the government, rather she uses her training as a lawyer and her training as a creative writer to educate each of us to do something, to be the hero we wish to see when it comes to changing what we don’t like about our nation. In that sense, Biodun’s Beere speaks my language loudly. In her words, Biodun notes that since British Colonial Nigeria, the trajectory of Nigeria’s political history has been replete with civil rights movements, which have been very instrumental in achieving significant socio-political impacts. Set in 1947, Beere presents the story of the Egba women’s revolt – a resistance movement led by Funmilayo Ransome Kuti against the corrupt imposition of unfair taxation by the then colonial government. According to the playwright, Beere portrays the power of collective and inclusive citizen action in addressing governance issues. And so it did; I meant, the power of the collective as well as citizen action.

I’ve been surprised at how we often overlook these in our desire for a better nation. There’re those who go to the streets to protest regarding issues that matter to them. There are those who speak up. There’re many who don’t partake in this and it’s not possible that everybody would. However, it should be noted that each of us can be an activist in something, we can be heroes in our corners. We can by at least carrying out the civic responsibility that every Nigerian who wants good governance should carry out. Voting during election. But this too is largely ignored by many. Those who don’t vote make the most noise and they’re mostly in parts of the country where the most virulent criticisms of ‘government’ come from.

Some of us take these contradictions seriously, so it’s difficult to accept the insults being thrown by Nigerians in this category? I can’t understand a Nigerian who wouldn’t do a thing, even exercise their civic responsibility by voting during election but expects the best of governance. There’re as well those who collect money from politicians before they vote, scorning those who say they shouldn’t. It’s worth noting that the part of the country where some collect money to vote is also where criticisms of ‘government’ mostly come from. Yet many of them are online insulting the ‘government’ they voted for after they collected money.

If there’re Nigerians with the mentality that they can insult other tribes, and insult other people’s religion over the state of the nation while they sit and do nothing, Beere, the play, is a helpful rebuttal. It’s another evidence of what some of us point to, but which some pretend they don’t understand. It’s our public space though, and those who do nothing except blame everyone else for the condition of this nation are highly welcome in it. But they should have enough presence of mind to accept that we’re here too – those of us who believe it’s irresponsible of any citizen to expect benefits without having responsibility.

To be continued….

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