Dear Single Ladies,
It has come to my notice that men, aka hunkles of nowadays have withdrawn the privilege we used to enjoy; like the Smo smo shakara that we ladies use to do after being wooed.
Things like playing-hard-to-get “give me time to think about it,” “I will get back to you,” “I no want (while you still want o?). All no longer exist in their new found busy life.
My sister! one single shakara from you, toaster don disappear! They call it ” We Move” ?
What do we do now?
As per concerned counsellor, my sister! if any son of Adam come to shoot shot and you know deep within, you like am, biko no time to do shakara, accept am. If you no like am, let your no be NO.
If you’re the type that want to think about it, pls sis accept the bobo first and continue the thinking inside the relationship.
If you’re the praying type, still accept am and continue your prayer.
Mind you, I am not encouraging you to be loose, cheap or promiscuous. No no! That is not my goal.
Pls know your spec, your value, your worth and what you want. And when you see it, go in for it with all ‘thy might’. The world is short already, sis.
And if son of Adam didn’t tick your boxes, pls don’t keep him around for some fickle reasons like “urgent 2k besty,” “plan B,” “friend zone or brotherly zone”. Let someone’s husband go and meet his wife!
Meeting is over.
Bye bye.
Yours faithfully,
Malate Peter
Relationship Counsellor.