Who Are They?
It is no more news that most guys now don’t come out to declare their interest in a lady formally. They simply go ahead to fraudulently start calling her with pet names from there a romantic relationship kicks out. (Though some guys are shouting “shoot us some shots” ??I have no problem with them! Continue enjoying your shots uncles)
From the research I carried out, 85% of single guys are on this table.
What’s Their Modus Operandi?
Hey sister! How or where a man woo you, is not something to pick up, but It has a lot to do with his personality and approach. Watch out!
I am aware of this set that can endure and pursue “hard to get lady” till they get her but today our discussion differs from their side.
ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT’S NOT DEFINED IS OUT TO DEFILE…
Dear Ladies as I write now; these types of guys (play guys) are spread all over on the face of the earth. Infact some of them are even here. ?
They will get butterflies bubbling in your stomach, get you pieces like a pack of card, but most of them are just out for fun having fakely spoken good about you. Shine your eyes before they wound you!?
One amazing thing with them is; They can sleep with a roaming mad woman just to quench konji.☺ While 85% of women can only make love with a man whom they are in love with, for money or some favors.
Note that: I am not encouraging fornication here, just get my points. These men can sleep with anybody without any reason other than erection.
Next time, when you find yourself loving and building castle about that guy you gum body with, or simply because he calls you boo or my love, reset your brain to the above quote.
You see!!
Most of them avoid asking you out formally because they are not serious, they don’t know what they want. Or simply running away from commitments and responsibilities.
They choose this style to enable them easily disappear and reappear with their lovey-dovey talks, anytime they feel like. They keep you as spare tyres when need arises.Tear eyes o!
Of a truth, I tell you, most of them now don’t even have time for those love and castle you build in your head, their focus is their career, money, success and how to relieve konji. Be careful!
For those of you who think you’re smart or wise enough to change a player or a monster. Keep trying, but know this: A man can change only if he wants to. You can not change a man.
Miss Malate, how can we identify such kind of men?
By their fruits!
*They tell you “I miss you more than I love you” Beware!
*They are smart, mysterious, kitted and coded, They avoid any question of seriousness.
*Dare talk of marriage and they dog.
*They prefer your relationship with them to be hidden. Thus hiding you like a cocaine.
*The two of you can be online but he won’t chat you, no text, always claiming busy.
*They only chat whenever they are bored or have nothing doing. They don’t sacrifice time to meet.
*They snide inbox to ask for nude pictures always.
*Their conservations are also seasoned with trivialities.
*They don’t motivate or inspire you to do something good for yourself.
*The best motivation they offer is on bedmatics.
*They don’t discuss their personal life with you nor care about yours.
*They don’t introduce you to important people in their lives. You only meet, accidentally, some unserious friends of theirs.
This is just few from their features, lovelies.
How can we escape such kind of men?
My dears, to be continued. Follow me…
Yours faithfully,
Relationship Therapist
Malate Peter aka Miss Love.